Reasons You Keep Falling For the Wrong Guy

Reasons You Keep Falling For the Wrong Guy –

Falling for the guy is mostly common and normal, but when it is a repetitive incident, then you need help, LOL. It is not karma punishing for your past life or your sins, it’s not because you are unlucky when it comes to love, this article will help you see the reasons.

Here are some reasons why you fall for the wrong guy;

He’s just hot

When you fall for a guy because he is just hot especially one who knows it there is a 90% chance you will get heartbroken, as it was driven by lust.

You are afraid of being alone

Independent women who enjoy their company can hardly fall for men easily as they take time to navigate and find the man they want. women who are afraid to be alone jump into relationships and fall easily as it just makes them feel less alone.

You think love can change people

People who think they can fix people with their love and affection tend to fall for the wrong as they are based on damaged people.

Most of them want to recreate what they watched in movies thinking it’s going to be the same in reality, especially when you know he isn’t genuine and doesn’t care about you, yet you stick around hoping he will change and get to love you.

You haven’t decided what your relationship deal-breakers are

When you figure out what you can’t tolerate and make a mental list of them, you won’t fall for the wrong guys as you are already aware of what you desire and can’t tolerate from your partner.

You trust too easily

People who trust easily are usually taken advantage of especially when they make their selves vulnerable in front of the guy, they also tend to see the good in everyone which is actually good but this doesn’t help them see the bad sides and make good decisions for themselves.

Also read; Signs of a Healthy Relationship

Apart from finding true love, you don’t have any goal or aim in your life

A lady who doesn’t;t know what she wants yet or her aim tends to be confused by any guy who shows her little affection.

In that confusion, she might confuse any act of kindness from a guy as love, this can make her fall for the wrong guy as he doesn’t actually love her, she just misinterpreted.

You have low self-esteem

Low self-esteem can fuck a lady up as she always thinks she doesn’t deserve this or that making her settle for less, a good guy who is way above her class could love her but low self-esteem won’t allow her to accept making her think she doesn’t deserve him and at the end settle for less.

Most times they are being badly treated but they don’t believe they can be treated way better than that.

All the guys you fall for seem to have creepily identical qualities

It’s best to try different types of guys when your preferred types keep hurting you over and over again it’s absolutely normal and common to have a preferred choice and type in men but, if you keep choosing the same type of guys with the same similarities who keep hurting you then you keep falling for the wrong guys, try a different type.

He thrills and excites you

When he brings out the rebellious type in you, you enjoy and like how he behaves and doesn’t care, let’s just tag him the bad boy type. at some point, you will wear out and want to find another bad boy to excite you for the time being.

You are afraid of commitment

Commitment issues continually make you fall for the wrong guys as you know deep within it won’t last, or vice versa, you also date men with commitment issues as you are scared to commit and reject good partners along the way.